RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Waking up everyday,seeing things around me... i wonder what the world is becoming.. the most annoying thing on our campus here in O.A.U is the rate at which people go into relationship.. Personal to me its kind of mad,all for the sake of love i see what people do to themselves.. do love really exist?and it if does whats love?is it love that makes a part one 16years old girl go after a final year 25 years old man?
I have been in lots of relationship,if you gonna say it,well i can be called a typical player,but my rules are simple,i never lie to girls,never hurt them unless they hurt themselves,but the funniest thing is after like 2,3,4 outings,these so girls claim they love,please is it love?do people just fall in love over night.
O.A.U has been my case study for a long time,lot of Moz girls going into relationship,some even claiming they are damn serious.,claiming they wanna get married.(can you imagine... 16years old pikin talk say she wan marry).,i have been trying for a very long time to find answer to the funny popular problem,who is to be blame for most messes in relationship in Nigeria Universities?the Guys or the Ladies????




Here are some TIPS to O.A.U GIRLS
* Just because you think "everyone is doing it," doesn't mean they are. Some are, some aren't — and some are lying.
* There are a lot of good reasons to say "no, not yet." Protecting your feelings is one of them.
* You're in charge of your own life - don't let anyone pressure you into having sex.
* You can always say "no" — even if you've said "yes" before.
* If you're drunk or high, you can't make good decisions about sex. Don't do something you might not remember or might really regret.
* Sex won't make him or her yours and a baby won't make them stay.

25 Steps To Be Closer To Allah

1. Start off each day with ‘adhkaar al-istiyqaadh’ (waking up Supplications), thanking Allah for waking up in good shape.

2. Put Allah first in your life.

3. Broaden your horizons – learn 5 new verses from the Quran every day, travel to pray far in the mosque to brighten your day,take up a booklet having supplications and read them.

4. Pray Salaat Al-dhuhaa (after sunrise).

5. If someone says something mean ;to you, just shrug it off and dismiss it in a friendly, laid back manner, and pray that Allah shall forgive them.

6. When you get angry, remember Allah, and how short and worthless life is to waste in being Angry.

7. Remember that you can never have too many friends, but you can have few quality friends that help you fulfill the purpose of your creation (i.e. live for Allah).

8. When you’re happy, try to share your happiness with others. Thank Allah for that, and pray its continuation.

9. When something bad or embarrassing happens to you, just think that it could always be worse, remember the reward of patience, and thank Allah that it’s not worse than it is.

10. Do something extra of goodness once in a while, like feeding a poor person, or caressing an orphan’s head.

11. Never stop believing that you can win Allah’s love and thus work For it. Then you can win the love of Allah’s slaves.

12. Spend some time thinking of Allah’s amazing creation.

13. Always love those who love Allah unconditionally. This way you will ensure that you live for Him, love for Him, and hate for Him (those who are enemies of Him).

14. Find the righteous ways to express yourself, and if you think that what you are about to say shall cause no benefit, maintain silence (this is tough!!).

15. Every now and then, give yourself a break. Play sports, give time to your family, friends, but always remember Allah and watch that He is watching you.

16. Pray for blessing to come to those being lost, and pray to Allah to guide them to the right path.

17. Hug your parents, kiss their hands and heads and always obey but stop at Allah’s orders.

18. Smile to everyone, for your smile makes a big difference to him or her and you are rewarded.

19. Forgive, forget and smile.

20. Tears are not for women only… tears are for all human beings with feelings remaining in them. Don’t restrain your tears when remembering Allah.

21. When people criticize your actions and effort, revise your actions and see if they please Allah or no. If they do; then ignore and remember how the Prophet (SAW) and the Sahaba were criticized, made fun of and even physically harmed, so have patience.

22. Read the Quran daily and try to have a schedule for completing it as much as you could. As you open the Quran daily, read with observing not just passing your eyes through the words.

23. Don’t let popularity go to your head, for it never lasts and you may lose from it more than gain.

24. Never look down on anybody, for, to Allah, they may be better than you.

25. Send this to all with the intention of having a healthy society living for Allah and pray.

“This is by Grace of my Lord – to test me whether I am grateful or ungrateful! And whoever is grateful, truly, his gratitude is for himself; and whoever is ungrateful, (it is for the loss of onlyhimself). Certainly my Lord is Rich, Bountiful.” (27:40)


Source: http://islamgreatreligion.wordpress.com/2009/02/25/25-steps-to-being-closer-to-allah/

Jazakallah!!

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ALL ABOUT MICHAELJOSEPH JACKSON

Michael Joseph Jackson (August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009) was an American recording artist and entertainer. In addition, his recording career enabled him to have a role as a businessman. The seventh child of the Jackson family, he made his debut onto the professional music scene at the age of 11 as a member of The Jackson 5 in 1969, and later began a solo career in 1971 while still a member of the group. Referred to as the "King of Pop" in subsequent years, his 1982 album Thriller remains the world's best-selling record of all time and four of his other solo studio albums are among the world's best-selling records: Off the Wall (1979), Bad (1987), Dangerous (1991) and HIStory (1995).

In the early 1980s, he became a dominant figure in popular music and the first African American entertainer to amass a strong crossover following on MTV. The popularity of his music videos airing on MTV, such as "Beat It", "Billie Jean" and "Thriller"—widely credited with transforming the music video from a promotional tool into an art form—helped bring the relatively new channel to fame. Videos such as "Black or White" and "Scream" made Jackson an enduring staple on MTV in the 1990s. With stage performances and music videos, Jackson popularized a number of physically complicated dance techniques, such as the robot and the moonwalk. His distinctive musical sound and vocal style influenced many hip hop, pop and contemporary R&B artists.

Jackson donated and raised millions of dollars for beneficial causes through his foundations, charity singles, and support of 39 charities. Other aspects of his personal life, including his often changing appearances and eccentric behavior, generated significant controversy which damaged his public image. Though he was accused of child sexual abuse in 1993, the criminal investigation was closed due to lack of evidence and Jackson was not charged. The singer had experienced health concerns since the early 1990s and conflicting reports regarding the state of his finances since the late 1990s. Jackson married twice and fathered three children, all of which caused further controversy. In 2005, Jackson was tried and acquitted of further sexual abuse allegations and several other charges.

One of the few artists to have been inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame twice, his other achievements include multiple Guinness World Records—including one for "Most Successful Entertainer of All Time"—13 Grammy Awards, 13 number one singles in his solo career, and the sale of 750 million records worldwide.^[4] Jackson's highly publicized personal life, coupled with his successful career, made him a part of popular culture for almost four decades. Michael Jackson died on June 25, 2009, aged 50.^[5] The specific cause of death has yet to be determined. Before his death, Jackson had announced a 50-date sell-out This Is It comeback tour, in London, UK.

Background information

Birth name	Michael Joseph Jackson
Born	August 29, 1958 Gary, Indiana, United States
Died	June 25, 2009 (aged 50) Los Angeles, California United States
Genre(s)	Pop, R&B, rock, soul
Occupation(s)	Singer, songwriter, record producer, arranger, dancer, choreographer, actor, author, businessman, financier, philanthropist
Instrument(s)	Vocals, multiple instruments
Voice type(s)	Countertenor[1]
Years active	1967–2009
Label(s)	Motown, Epic
Associated acts	The Jackson 5/The Jacksons
Website	MichaelJackson.com

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Body Language Of Happy Couples

Body language is a great gauge of how a relationship is faring. An outsider can analyse your private relationship if they study a couple's gestures and movements.

You see a couple on the far end of a home renovations store, making decisions about their new home decor. They're too far away to figure out the conversation. But it's a sure shot that this is one happy couple. Why? The expression on their faces, the way they stand, the amount they touch each other and the constant eye contact they make every now and then brings you to that judgement.


Body language is a great gauge of how a relationship is faring. An outsider can analyse your private relationship if they study a couple's gestures and movements.

You see a couple on the far end of a home renovations store, making decisions about their new home decor. They're too far away to figure out the conversation. But it's a sure shot that this is one happy couple. Why? The expression on their faces, the way they stand, the amount they touch each other and the constant eye contact they make every now and then brings you to that judgement.

BODY LANGUAGE FOR CONFLICT MANAGEMENT

When we fight, the non verbal communication directed towards our partners has a bigger impact than what we are actually saying. So the next time you're in a disagreement with your other half, just take a deep breath and analyse both your body languages. Are your arms crossed and is your back towards her? Then you're subconsciously sending her a message that you're already closed to this discussion and are not even trying to resolve it. Clenching your fists while saying everything is alright will only communicate that something is wrong. The non verbal cues take precedence over the verbal cues.

How we fight, our gestures and our non verbal signals can help us resolve conflict and reach the kiss and make up part sooner. Facing the other person, making eye contact, placing hands on both sides and nodding while they get to speak their mind, are all positive signals while arguing. Negative behaviours for fighting couples include moving away, leaning back, looking at the floor, frowning, making fists, folding arms, staring with disbelief and snorting.

BODY LANGUAGE DURING SEX

Our body language here depends on the depth of our connection to our partner.

• Stiffness in shoulders or neck shows anxiety or coldness, which is not characteristic of a physically intimate couple.
• The eye roaming is a sign that the mind is wandering whereas the eyes open, with direct contact shows a secure relationship.
• Closing the eyes is a sign of receiving pleasure or being shy.
• Cupping the face with both hands while kissing shows very strong emotions and is normally a subconscious way of saying "I'm glad you're mine."

BODY LANGUAGE OF MISMATCHED COUPLES

• Dominating partners: The dominating person puts their hand on the other one's shoulder ever so often. Another clue is watching a couple go shopping. See a husband impatiently walking ahead, not wanting to stop every time his wife does? The non dominating husband would patiently stop beside her instead of striding ahead. And the one that is dominated by his wife will be willing to spend all day waiting for her to finish!
• Egoistic partners: If one of the two has his head tilted upwards, chin in the air; he is full of pride. This could be his defiance to prove his individuality also. A woman has her arm draped over a man who just lets her tag along with his own hands in the pocket. He is either disinterested or is egoistically walking around to show off his catch. He should be maintaining frequent eye contact or reassuringly touch her hand that is around his arm to show he cares.
• Deceptive partners: How do you know one of the two is lying? Avoiding eye contact, frequent swallowing, scratching in front of ear and head are some of the nonverbal signs that one is trying to hide something. Alternatively, a poker straight face with zero expressions and minimum speech also shows deceit. If he/she is trying to hide something they might also shower you with praises.

Things you should know about me

My names are Sulaimon Q(C)uarzm Olafimihan Ojo Nene***(S.C.O.O.N)***,born around 5:15am on Monday,2nd of May 1988 to the family of Alhaji and Alhaja Sulaimon. Well i hail from Ikare- Akoko,Ondo State Nigeria.. what can i say about my town,all i have about em are faint memories cause most of my childhood days werent at home.i did my primary school education at Aunty Bisi Nursery and Primary School,Ugbe Akoko Ondo state,its like 20 to 30 minutes drive from my home town.Its kind of cool a school,lots of kids ,some rich,some poor,some kind of average but everything was kind of cool...well i was the Time-Keeper in my final year days(lol)memories of it do make me laugh,me time-keeper.Let ABNPS for Federal Government College,Ikirun(mind you i was just 9years when i got admitted into F.G.C IK).The school was cool,as in super cool,lot of gangstars,lot of bullies,cant forget one called LABUSH(he was such an asshole... the first person to beat me when i got to my new school).. Got my first suspension when i was in JSS2(crazy)..The memories are superb but my S S S 1 was fucking bad,had lot of problems and was kind of groomed.. As Allah wishes graduate like every normal students. Spent 3-4 years at home chiiling for admission ,right now i study Geography in Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile Ife,Osun State,Nigeria.what can i say about my course,i never really like the course but i dont have any other option.things has changed now..Geography is now like a life to me,its fun learning about Nature,Environment,Reliefs and the trip are really cool.i love em.

THERE ARE LOTS ABOUT ME ,SOMETIMES WHEN I THINK OF THEM I GET VERY VERY SCARED...... READ ON AND YOU MIGHT GET TO KNOW ME BETTER.........

S.C.O.O.N